My first reaction was outrage and I wanted to stoop to name calling and so forth but then I thought that if a woman found honor licking another woman’s flavor off of their husband, supporting him finacially and help keeping his secret life, then that is her crown. Her glory does not make him stay with her. He tells her he loves his wife? Yet He hides her from the wife and whenever he gets caught, he says she doesn’t mean a thing. Why not just remain blistful.

This mistress hasn’t stepped to the right wife yet with all that garbage. I know many of wives with his and her engraved bullets just for the joyous occasion.

This blog is either meant to stir negative emotions between women, support and glorify adultery, fornication and the demise of not just the african american family, but families in general or convince real wives that they are the meaningless part in the marriage. That a wives needs, desires, marital and household concerns are not important over a man’s sex drive. Don’t fuss at him about taking out the trash, he might go to her. Don’t mention helping kids with homework, he might go to her. Don’t make sure lights stay on at your house, because she doesn’t have to turn them on in her house. Don’t even look tired or have hair out of place after working all day, picking up kids, go to PTA, take them to practice, bible study or real family errands. This mistress is trying to convince you that the vowes you and your husband promised to God and each other means less than his libido.

A wife should not stay submissive and walk on eggshells to please her husband out of fear that someone would be under his desk on their knees. Marriage is not to be entered into lightly. It takes committment and hard work. Why bother with an affair if Divorce is legal. Keep telling him he is “the man”. You are the bomb Mistress, so keep him with you oh sexy wonderful one so a wife can make room for “the real man”. What you don’t understand is that a husband and father has to Man Up to be the head of our household, he only has to drop his pants to be a frequent visitor in yours.

I have never seen a forum where the editorial writer goes back and argues and insults the readers and responders. Who threw professional journalism conduct out of the window.
I scratched my head the first time, I read the disclaimer “Your opinion is valued and disagreement is encouraged.” Credit to PULL for helping this writer set the women’s movement back through freedom of the press and free speech. Now I understand that this forum is not about promoting the positive steps and strides that women of color have made and building strength in sisterhood.

In my opinion, The african american family has just had it fabric ripped to shreds with the stroke of the keyboard and the strokes of this mistress. She has earned her rightful place along side the Klu Klu Klan, HIV, Drugs, Violence and Iliteracy.